"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Would you let your gf do topless?

pyros

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Hi.

Just wondering, would you let your gf do topless at the beach?
Personally I do not like the idea so I wont, but to be more specific:

a) Would you let her do topless when with you at the beach with a lot of ppl around?
b) Would you let her do topless when with you at the beach with a ver few ppl around?
c) Would you let her do topless at the beach when she goes ONLY with her female friends?


And, if you do not like the idea of her doing topless in any case, what would you do if she insists and she wants to do it anyway?


Thanks.

P.S.
here where I live many girls are doing topless at the beach nowadays.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Drook

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I don't know why I would let her go topless. The only thing she would get out of it would be an ego boost from getting ogled.
 

Deep Dish

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I would allow it.

On the one hand, you need to establish boundaries. On the other hand, you can’t “own” a woman, jealousy is a perception you need to avoid. Ultimately, though, it says something about her. It’s a sign of sluttiness. I’d let her have her fun, knowing I’d be the one going home to bang her, but I’d listen to the underlying message.
 

Who Dares Win

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This is a sh1t test that you cant pass, the simply fact she is asking its a problem.

You say no and she perceive you as jeaoulos and "insecure" (most abused word ever)

You say yes and she will be like a mice which starts to gnaw a piece of cheese taking more and more time after time.

The only situation where that would be a problem is a private beach of a private swimming pool terace where you are with a couple of friends and the girl of the other couple is topless as well.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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