"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Would you learn French or Russian?

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Hi, what language would you want to learn?


1.) For Coolness Factor

2.) For Job Opportunities (i.e, job in government such as translator/interpreter


For those who speak one of these languages or other languages please feel free to comment.

BTW, I minored in German and regret it. German is not very useful outside of Central Europe and not really for jobs (unless we are talking engineering or automotive)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Peaks&Valleys

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French, simply for the women.

Even though France is as liberal as it gets and they mostly hate Americans....They have some of the sexiest most beautiful women in world. IMHO anyways.
 

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Well French wouldn't really give you any cool points. Honestly though I've never met a woman who says she thinks French is sexy, it's only on tv where you see women saying French is sexy. In real life, never heard it.

As for Russian, that's definitely going to gain you some cool points but I heard it's very difficult to learn. Not too sure if you could get government jobs as interpreters because Russian immigrants would be preferred over an American because they know the language better.

If you really really wanted to do something different, why not try Arabic?
 

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Either Russian or Chinese.

Chinese could be useful in business because most of the stuff nowadays is made in China. Threecountriesplan is from China although he is American, says it's cool there.

Russian is not difficult to learn. In English you only have one LEARN, in Russian that one word learn is spelled and pronounced differently depending on who learned what, was it her that learned, he learned, they learned, you learned, etc.

I don't know about government, but in plans of trade Chinese is better, because USA don't want Russia widely accepted.

It all depends on what you plan to do with your life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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English because America.

But seriously who the fvck wants to date Russian women? Definitely the most lowlife women (and people in general) in the world. Sexy as hell but a nightmare in every other way.

So Spanish for the women. And Chinese for the future.
 
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Depends on where you live. If you're in the states, I'd have to suggest Spanish. Spanish is cool because you actually get to use it - and only more so in the coming decades.
 

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Russian.

Because I already know 4 other languages and Russian would open a literal ****ton of job opportunities from Finland. It's a gigantic, almost unexplored market for western ****e.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Depends on where you live. If you're in the states, I'd have to suggest Spanish. Spanish is cool because you actually get to use it - and only more so in the coming decades.
I agree, I'd like to learn Spanish as well. For me, it's just having the time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bokanovsky

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FairShake said:
But seriously who the fvck wants to date Russian women? Definitely the most lowlife women (and people in general) in the world. Sexy as hell but a nightmare in every other way.
Sounds a lot like Americans...minus the sexy part.
 

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The_flying_dutchman said:
Well French wouldn't really give you any cool points. Honestly though I've never met a woman who says she thinks French is sexy, it's only on tv where you see women saying French is sexy. In real life, never heard it.
I'm talking about actually going to France....and meeting French women.

WTF are you talking about?
 

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French is good if you want to live anywhere in the world that was once a colony of France, including much of the Caribbean. Martinique is still a French possession; it's a beautiful place if you ever get to go.
 

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Depends for each personality whichever appears more drastic when you want to stand out.
I have an arabic last name from my father which would make French more "expected" and Russian more mysterious. Yet ever since watching Chackie Chan's movies and Dragonball when i was young i got more interested in Asian Culture.
I do chinese Shaolin Kung Fu and am picking up Japanese again.
 

Ronaldo7

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French. It is spoken in many more countries than Russian.

It has more marketability as well.

Russian is very limited and a waste of time. So is MANDARIN, not Chinese. So many ignoramus....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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