"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Would you hit a girl?

steviecruiser

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I aint into hitting chicks but if 1 ever laid a hand on me I'd punch her. I have the ballz to admit this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I believe that if anyone hits another person than they should be prepared to get hit back, Male or female

but me personally...I would not hit anyone, male or female, unless they threaten my physical well being.

My Ex Gf threatened to hit me before. I told her that if she ever tries that then she wouldn't get that fist back

I don't play that
 

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If a chick took a swing at me, I'd probably drop her to the floor and let gravity do its job. Otherwise I wouldn't lay a hand on her in anger.

At some point I would like to learn Aikido, which is a purely self defense form that also believes in protecting the attacker from serious injury.

Play time could be another story if she's into that sort of thing, and while I've never done it, i'd be open to it.
 

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If she is driving you to get to the point of hitting her she is doing it on purpose. She has a desire to be treated like shyt. That's all she has ever known. She is the sick one and you need to get away.
 

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in middle school this fat girl decided to randomly bully me and 2 other male friends while we were setting up tents in my friends back yard...

she was throwing rocks at us HARD... and running up to us and slapping/punching us and talking a lot of stuff... she did this for about 10 minutes... so i was fed up and open hand slapped the sh!t out of her jaw... she started fat girl crying (barely able to breath) and ran into her house...

only time i've ever hit a girl... and yes, i felt i was justified...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bukowski_merit

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Onlyliveonce said:
If she is driving you to get to the point of hitting her she is doing it on purpose. She has a desire to be treated like shyt. That's all she has ever known. She is the sick one and you need to get away.
This reminds me of something i read on fastseduction not too long ago...

a guy was posting that his girlfriend has a history of being abused by boyfriends... and after 4-5 months she was starting to get b!tchy/bi-polar/crazy with him... it was a very long post, but that was the jist of it...

a few people picked up that she was acting that way because she was not used to being treated good, and did not want to be treated good...

so they actually advised him that they'd get out of the relationship, OR he could abuse her (they were somewhat joking, but being serious in that that was the only way to keep her happy)...

Well, he went and did option 2... said he grabbed her by the throat and told her to shut the fvck up and spit on her when she got in his face... then threw her against the wall...

within minutes they were having the most "intense" $ex he'd had in his life with her... and she suddenly became very submissive to him... less b!tchy... and WAS HAPPY all the time.........................................


yes, some women are very sick....
 

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rakishness said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjAn4hmQtQs

I def would if she hit me first. Like the guy in the video
The sad thing is that there are guys like that who would jump in to protect girls...I'm sorry... B1tches like that who feel they can go around treating people any kinda of way. Only because she's hot and female

I feel for that guy in the video. That chick had no right to put her hands on anyone
 

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woman punches me i punch back, slap me and ill slap back. then i gotta pimp-slap the mr. save-a-hoe's that wanna fight after "u wanna beat up a woman"
 

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bukowski_merit said:
This reminds me of something i read on fastseduction not too long ago...

a guy was posting that his girlfriend has a history of being abused by boyfriends... and after 4-5 months she was starting to get b!tchy/bi-polar/crazy with him... it was a very long post, but that was the jist of it...

a few people picked up that she was acting that way because she was not used to being treated good, and did not want to be treated good...

so they actually advised him that they'd get out of the relationship, OR he could abuse her (they were somewhat joking, but being serious in that that was the only way to keep her happy)...

Well, he went and did option 2... said he grabbed her by the throat and told her to shut the fvck up and spit on her when she got in his face... then threw her against the wall...

within minutes they were having the most "intense" $ex he'd had in his life with her... and she suddenly became very submissive to him... less b!tchy... and WAS HAPPY all the time.........................................


yes, some women are very sick....
yeah, some people have weird fetishes. Like guys who love fat chicks, etc. But mind you I'd far prefer a girl that wants to be dominated over some of the other sick things some people get off on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I would never hit a girl, but I would shake the **** outta one...J/K
 

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Don't be afraid to hit a girl. They'll love you for it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've never been with a female that got violent, so I don't know. I'd probably just sling her to the floor.

Connery is the sh1t.
 

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Women are equals. In any situation where I would hit a man (self-defense), I would hit a woman.
 
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