steviecruiser
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I aint into hitting chicks but if 1 ever laid a hand on me I'd punch her. I have the ballz to admit this.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This reminds me of something i read on fastseduction not too long ago...Onlyliveonce said:If she is driving you to get to the point of hitting her she is doing it on purpose. She has a desire to be treated like shyt. That's all she has ever known. She is the sick one and you need to get away.
The sad thing is that there are guys like that who would jump in to protect girls...I'm sorry... B1tches like that who feel they can go around treating people any kinda of way. Only because she's hot and femalerakishness said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjAn4hmQtQs
I def would if she hit me first. Like the guy in the video
yeah, some people have weird fetishes. Like guys who love fat chicks, etc. But mind you I'd far prefer a girl that wants to be dominated over some of the other sick things some people get off on.bukowski_merit said:This reminds me of something i read on fastseduction not too long ago...
a guy was posting that his girlfriend has a history of being abused by boyfriends... and after 4-5 months she was starting to get b!tchy/bi-polar/crazy with him... it was a very long post, but that was the jist of it...
a few people picked up that she was acting that way because she was not used to being treated good, and did not want to be treated good...
so they actually advised him that they'd get out of the relationship, OR he could abuse her (they were somewhat joking, but being serious in that that was the only way to keep her happy)...
Well, he went and did option 2... said he grabbed her by the throat and told her to shut the fvck up and spit on her when she got in his face... then threw her against the wall...
within minutes they were having the most "intense" $ex he'd had in his life with her... and she suddenly became very submissive to him... less b!tchy... and WAS HAPPY all the time.........................................
yes, some women are very sick....
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
s$*( If she slapped me like that I probably would have kicked her in the stomach!rakishness said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjAn4hmQtQs
I def would if she hit me first. Like the guy in the video
Hahahaha! Awesomesteviecruiser said:s$*( If she slapped me like that I probably would have kicked her in the stomach!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lol, awesome. He's the man (and that was some amazing bsing on his part).scrouds said:Sir Sean Connery on smacking *****es up: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FgMLROTqJ0