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Would you guys go into a girl's work with the intent of asking her out?

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So I used to work with this girl who had a friend I kinda digged. The only problem is that she had a boyfriend. And they used to come into my work all the time to see her friend (I work at a bar). Her friend has since stopped working there and I don't see her coming in anymore.

But recently I heard through the grapevine that she's single (I still work with a couple girls that hang around her). Since I don't see her good friend anymore I'm not sure know I would go around contacting her. I've thought about going into her work but I'm not sure if that's too creepy. Thoughts guys?
 

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It's not ideal, but you gotta get her where she is.

Does she work in an environment where you can just stop by? Restaurant, etc? If she's an accountant, it may be odd to just pop in.
 

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Iceberg said:
It's not ideal, but you gotta get her where she is.

Does she work in an environment where you can just stop by? Restaurant, etc? If she's an accountant, it may be odd to just pop in.
yeah, she works at a store I regularly go into (especially when I'm bored). That's how I found out she worked there, I literally ran into her there, lol (though that's when she was with her ex).
 

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Perfect then. You already know her, so you have a rapport. Why not fit some "I had a great night at (X Bar) last weekend." into the conversation. Then say, "Hey you'd love it there. Let's go next week." You get the number and work it from there.

Of course this girl is freshly broken up, so who knows if she's still banging that ex. But at least you'll get to the bottom of it (and hopefully her).

Anyway, nah I dont think this is a weird situation. You know what to do.
 

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Cool, sounds good. I'll ask her out the next time I run into her. Guess I was over thinking this a bit.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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