MatureDJ
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Would you go through this just to be more attractive to women?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MikeOck
Don Juan
He looks like a butch lesbian.
plate's_empty
Senior Don Juan
Honestly though, IS that attractive to women??
Bokanovsky
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I don't think he is doing it to be more attractive to women. He is the male version of this chick (who is married to some rich guy who is financing her plastic surgeries):
http://www.fashionbank.ru/models/user/10154.html
Some people are into modifying their cars. Others are into decorating their homes or gardening. And some are into modifying themselves (i.e. tattoos, piercings, etc.) What these two are doing is just an extreme version of "body art". Most likely, they have deep rooted psychological issues but hey, it's their bodies.
http://www.fashionbank.ru/models/user/10154.html
Some people are into modifying their cars. Others are into decorating their homes or gardening. And some are into modifying themselves (i.e. tattoos, piercings, etc.) What these two are doing is just an extreme version of "body art". Most likely, they have deep rooted psychological issues but hey, it's their bodies.
plate's_empty
Senior Don Juan
Bokanovsky said:
Yeah, but I'd blow the doors off that chick.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
SOME of those pictures look like a doll. not sure I could do her. Why did he give himself D1ck Suc7ing lips?