"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Would you feel like an a$$ if...

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Say you met a girl, she ended up being a sorority chick, you went out, had a drink and then realized this girl could put down more alcohol then you could. How would you feel?

I hate the idea of knowing a woman may be able to out drink me. lol I was at a sports bar one day and this 35yr old or so woman had 2x as much beer as I did, and she never even went to the bathroom. I was like.. Thank GOD she isn't my date. :eek:

Anyone here ever been out drank by a woman when you went out? I haven't yet, but I am sure it will happen, and then i'll have to let my male ego go. :D

I guess for me personally, I am your fitness freak and buff so my alcohol is usually just social and I dont drink till I cant drink anymore. Oh well, we all have our own talents I guess. Drinking a 30 pack is NOT mine.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My 'manhood' doesn't revolve around the fact that someone can out drink me, so no...i wouldn't feel like an a$$.
 

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I'm with Sinful. At 28, you should be beyond caring about something this silly, whether she can out drink you or not.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who cares? The more she drinks the better chance to get her naked. Not that I need to get a woman drunk to seduce her but it never hurts.
 

War Against Betaism

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I'm actually a pretty known light weight and I don't really care, if I'm having fun that's all that matters.
 

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All good answers :up:

And yes...the whole... Go ahead drink more and get drunk deal. lol
 

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How ridiculous!

Do you care if some fat chick can eat more pie than you?

I'm guessing not... same thing applies, it really doesn't matter.

I have seen women in their forties weighing around 100lbs who can drink two full 70cl bottles of vodka... do you know why? Because they are alchoholics.

I'd rather be known as "Two can Van Damme - the Shandy Warrior" then need to drink 2 bottles of vodka to get through the day.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DoctorLW

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Omen said:
Say you met a girl, she ended up being a sorority chick, you went out, had a drink and then realized this girl could put down more alcohol then you could. How would you feel?

I hate the idea of knowing a woman may be able to out drink me. lol I was at a sports bar one day and this 35yr old or so woman had 2x as much beer as I did, and she never even went to the bathroom. I was like.. Thank GOD she isn't my date. :eek:

Anyone here ever been out drank by a woman when you went out? I haven't yet, but I am sure it will happen, and then i'll have to let my male ego go. :D

I guess for me personally, I am your fitness freak and buff so my alcohol is usually just social and I dont drink till I cant drink anymore. Oh well, we all have our own talents I guess. Drinking a 30 pack is NOT mine.
Never. But my tolerance is very high in conjuction with me being nearly 200 lbs. I do admit, I've seen some girls last for a long time with me before, and I've gotten concerned. In the end though, they all had just held it together pretty well for being as wasted as they were (later proved by them vomiting).

There's also been some times where in order to get a girl to drink (if they were hungover and being whiners or "didn't want to go out that night") I've offered to take 2 shots to their 1, and a couple times I went up to 3 to 1. In retrospect, I'm lucky those girls did not have high tolerances.

I've definitely seen a co-worker like the woman you describe. Her tolerance was really high. She drank just a little less than I did, but what was truly remarkable about that was her being able to go to bed at 4:00AM and wake up at 7:00AM to workout or go to work with no problem. Insane.
 

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Oh yeah, and one more thing. I've ran into girls that would not hook up with guys that couldn't drink more than them on multiple occasions. I can recall 4 seperate occasions off the top of my head where a girl told me that directly... Just an fyi to some of the guys out there.
 

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DoctorLW said:
Oh yeah, and one more thing. I've ran into girls that would not hook up with guys that couldn't drink more than them on multiple occasions. I can recall 4 seperate occasions off the top of my head where a girl told me that directly... Just an fyi to some of the guys out there.
If someone actually said that drinking more than a guy was a reason to next them, they are an easy target to bust on, because that's pretty ridiculous, if they are serious.
 

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DonGorgon said:
As a none drinker myself , i would say that most women who drink could out drink me, i dont care as long as it does not stop them from Fing me...
QFT
 

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If a girl can out-drink me, good for her.

That being said, she'll be sloppy-drunk/whiny/annoying until 2:00 am, will sleep until noon the following day, upon which she'll wake up and have no motivation to do anything productive. Then she'll wonder why she's groggy and lethargic at work all week.

No thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Desert Fox

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Last time checked beer drinking doesn't grow you a penis and pair of balls (thank god) so ... . . NO
 

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Most of my dates have out drank me, id rather be fit and athletic than drink more
 

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If your date berates you for out drinking you, then challenge her for arm wrestling.

If you end up losing the arm wrestling then yeah you should feel like an ass and you better look and check if you still have a pair down there :crackup:.
 
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