"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would you feel like an a$$ if...

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Say you met a girl, she ended up being a sorority chick, you went out, had a drink and then realized this girl could put down more alcohol then you could. How would you feel?

I hate the idea of knowing a woman may be able to out drink me. lol I was at a sports bar one day and this 35yr old or so woman had 2x as much beer as I did, and she never even went to the bathroom. I was like.. Thank GOD she isn't my date. :eek:

Anyone here ever been out drank by a woman when you went out? I haven't yet, but I am sure it will happen, and then i'll have to let my male ego go. :D

I guess for me personally, I am your fitness freak and buff so my alcohol is usually just social and I dont drink till I cant drink anymore. Oh well, we all have our own talents I guess. Drinking a 30 pack is NOT mine.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My 'manhood' doesn't revolve around the fact that someone can out drink me, so no...i wouldn't feel like an a$$.
 

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I'm with Sinful. At 28, you should be beyond caring about something this silly, whether she can out drink you or not.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Who cares? The more she drinks the better chance to get her naked. Not that I need to get a woman drunk to seduce her but it never hurts.
 

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I'm actually a pretty known light weight and I don't really care, if I'm having fun that's all that matters.
 

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All good answers :up:

And yes...the whole... Go ahead drink more and get drunk deal. lol
 

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How ridiculous!

Do you care if some fat chick can eat more pie than you?

I'm guessing not... same thing applies, it really doesn't matter.

I have seen women in their forties weighing around 100lbs who can drink two full 70cl bottles of vodka... do you know why? Because they are alchoholics.

I'd rather be known as "Two can Van Damme - the Shandy Warrior" then need to drink 2 bottles of vodka to get through the day.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Omen said:
Say you met a girl, she ended up being a sorority chick, you went out, had a drink and then realized this girl could put down more alcohol then you could. How would you feel?

I hate the idea of knowing a woman may be able to out drink me. lol I was at a sports bar one day and this 35yr old or so woman had 2x as much beer as I did, and she never even went to the bathroom. I was like.. Thank GOD she isn't my date. :eek:

Anyone here ever been out drank by a woman when you went out? I haven't yet, but I am sure it will happen, and then i'll have to let my male ego go. :D

I guess for me personally, I am your fitness freak and buff so my alcohol is usually just social and I dont drink till I cant drink anymore. Oh well, we all have our own talents I guess. Drinking a 30 pack is NOT mine.
Never. But my tolerance is very high in conjuction with me being nearly 200 lbs. I do admit, I've seen some girls last for a long time with me before, and I've gotten concerned. In the end though, they all had just held it together pretty well for being as wasted as they were (later proved by them vomiting).

There's also been some times where in order to get a girl to drink (if they were hungover and being whiners or "didn't want to go out that night") I've offered to take 2 shots to their 1, and a couple times I went up to 3 to 1. In retrospect, I'm lucky those girls did not have high tolerances.

I've definitely seen a co-worker like the woman you describe. Her tolerance was really high. She drank just a little less than I did, but what was truly remarkable about that was her being able to go to bed at 4:00AM and wake up at 7:00AM to workout or go to work with no problem. Insane.
 

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Oh yeah, and one more thing. I've ran into girls that would not hook up with guys that couldn't drink more than them on multiple occasions. I can recall 4 seperate occasions off the top of my head where a girl told me that directly... Just an fyi to some of the guys out there.
 

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DoctorLW said:
Oh yeah, and one more thing. I've ran into girls that would not hook up with guys that couldn't drink more than them on multiple occasions. I can recall 4 seperate occasions off the top of my head where a girl told me that directly... Just an fyi to some of the guys out there.
If someone actually said that drinking more than a guy was a reason to next them, they are an easy target to bust on, because that's pretty ridiculous, if they are serious.
 

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DonGorgon said:
As a none drinker myself , i would say that most women who drink could out drink me, i dont care as long as it does not stop them from Fing me...
QFT
 

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If a girl can out-drink me, good for her.

That being said, she'll be sloppy-drunk/whiny/annoying until 2:00 am, will sleep until noon the following day, upon which she'll wake up and have no motivation to do anything productive. Then she'll wonder why she's groggy and lethargic at work all week.

No thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Last time checked beer drinking doesn't grow you a penis and pair of balls (thank god) so ... . . NO
 

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Most of my dates have out drank me, id rather be fit and athletic than drink more
 

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If your date berates you for out drinking you, then challenge her for arm wrestling.

If you end up losing the arm wrestling then yeah you should feel like an ass and you better look and check if you still have a pair down there :crackup:.
 
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