skirtChaser
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are you willing to walk a mile for a camel?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
would you drive 1.5 hours for some pvssy?
- Thread starter muscleman
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Here's my rule for driving for seeing the girl:
If it is a random hook-up and you don't plan on doing anything with it?
No.
If it is a possible LTR?
meet up in the middle
If it is an LTR?
Yes, but make her also come out to see you as well.
comic_relief
If it is a random hook-up and you don't plan on doing anything with it?
No.
If it is a possible LTR?
meet up in the middle
If it is an LTR?
Yes, but make her also come out to see you as well.
comic_relief
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
RYilmaz123
Don Juan
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muscleman said:Ever since my last breakup I kinda said fvck it and started focusing on myself. Currently there are a few girls that I could get with, but none that I REALLY want to do. One of them happens to live 1.5 hours away. I told her if I came to see her it would be a weekend thing and I'd have to crash at her place for the night to which she agreed.
But the question is ... is pvssy worth the drive? That's a fair amount of gas money
I'm finding myself at a bit of a crossroads, call it being selective or whatever, but I just don't go after the girls I used to anymore.
IF SHE WAS HOT YES!
MacAvoy
Banned
Good luck, it worked out perfectly for you, she's showing that she has high IL, its on your turf and you have the power. Given that, if you seal the deal, then its fine to drive up to see her in the future.
Tony Montana2004
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is this the first time you're meeting her?
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Pvssy is pvssy. If you got the time, money and gas to get there why not? Do something fun while your there to make it worth more your time!
darkjedi
Don Juan
If she said you can crash at her place for the weekend I would definitely do it. Heck, I flew to LA to spend the weekend with a chick I met at a club only once (we kept in touch for about a month before I went to see her) with no guarantee of sex. It ended up happening, but regardless I still had a good time and would have done it again.muscleman said:Ever since my last breakup I kinda said fvck it and started focusing on myself. Currently there are a few girls that I could get with, but none that I REALLY want to do. One of them happens to live 1.5 hours away. I told her if I came to see her it would be a weekend thing and I'd have to crash at her place for the night to which she agreed.
But the question is ... is pvssy worth the drive? That's a fair amount of gas money
I'm finding myself at a bit of a crossroads, call it being selective or whatever, but I just don't go after the girls I used to anymore.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nexus Polaris
Senior Don Juan
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I drove an hour and a half on a complete whim to get some ass at 7 in the morning a few years ago. But I ended up camping out at her house for the next 3 days, so it was worth it.