skirtChaser
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are you willing to walk a mile for a camel?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
would you drive 1.5 hours for some pvssy?
- Thread starter muscleman
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Here's my rule for driving for seeing the girl:
If it is a random hook-up and you don't plan on doing anything with it?
No.
If it is a possible LTR?
meet up in the middle
If it is an LTR?
Yes, but make her also come out to see you as well.
comic_relief
If it is a random hook-up and you don't plan on doing anything with it?
No.
If it is a possible LTR?
meet up in the middle
If it is an LTR?
Yes, but make her also come out to see you as well.
comic_relief
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
RYilmaz123
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muscleman said:Ever since my last breakup I kinda said fvck it and started focusing on myself. Currently there are a few girls that I could get with, but none that I REALLY want to do. One of them happens to live 1.5 hours away. I told her if I came to see her it would be a weekend thing and I'd have to crash at her place for the night to which she agreed.
But the question is ... is pvssy worth the drive? That's a fair amount of gas money
I'm finding myself at a bit of a crossroads, call it being selective or whatever, but I just don't go after the girls I used to anymore.
IF SHE WAS HOT YES!
MacAvoy
Banned
Good luck, it worked out perfectly for you, she's showing that she has high IL, its on your turf and you have the power. Given that, if you seal the deal, then its fine to drive up to see her in the future.
Tony Montana2004
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is this the first time you're meeting her?
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Pvssy is pvssy. If you got the time, money and gas to get there why not? Do something fun while your there to make it worth more your time!
darkjedi
Don Juan
If she said you can crash at her place for the weekend I would definitely do it. Heck, I flew to LA to spend the weekend with a chick I met at a club only once (we kept in touch for about a month before I went to see her) with no guarantee of sex. It ended up happening, but regardless I still had a good time and would have done it again.muscleman said:Ever since my last breakup I kinda said fvck it and started focusing on myself. Currently there are a few girls that I could get with, but none that I REALLY want to do. One of them happens to live 1.5 hours away. I told her if I came to see her it would be a weekend thing and I'd have to crash at her place for the night to which she agreed.
But the question is ... is pvssy worth the drive? That's a fair amount of gas money
I'm finding myself at a bit of a crossroads, call it being selective or whatever, but I just don't go after the girls I used to anymore.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Nexus Polaris
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I drove an hour and a half on a complete whim to get some ass at 7 in the morning a few years ago. But I ended up camping out at her house for the next 3 days, so it was worth it.