"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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would you drive 1.5 hours for some pvssy?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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xdreamz

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some people wait their whole lives not getting some.
 

comic_relief

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Here's my rule for driving for seeing the girl:

If it is a random hook-up and you don't plan on doing anything with it?
No.

If it is a possible LTR?
meet up in the middle

If it is an LTR?
Yes, but make her also come out to see you as well.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RYilmaz123

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muscleman said:
Ever since my last breakup I kinda said fvck it and started focusing on myself. Currently there are a few girls that I could get with, but none that I REALLY want to do. One of them happens to live 1.5 hours away. I told her if I came to see her it would be a weekend thing and I'd have to crash at her place for the night to which she agreed.

But the question is ... is pvssy worth the drive? That's a fair amount of gas money :down:

I'm finding myself at a bit of a crossroads, call it being selective or whatever, but I just don't go after the girls I used to anymore.

IF SHE WAS HOT YES!
 

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Good luck, it worked out perfectly for you, she's showing that she has high IL, its on your turf and you have the power. Given that, if you seal the deal, then its fine to drive up to see her in the future.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Pvssy is pvssy. If you got the time, money and gas to get there why not? Do something fun while your there to make it worth more your time!
 

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muscleman said:
Ever since my last breakup I kinda said fvck it and started focusing on myself. Currently there are a few girls that I could get with, but none that I REALLY want to do. One of them happens to live 1.5 hours away. I told her if I came to see her it would be a weekend thing and I'd have to crash at her place for the night to which she agreed.

But the question is ... is pvssy worth the drive? That's a fair amount of gas money :down:

I'm finding myself at a bit of a crossroads, call it being selective or whatever, but I just don't go after the girls I used to anymore.
If she said you can crash at her place for the weekend I would definitely do it. Heck, I flew to LA to spend the weekend with a chick I met at a club only once (we kept in touch for about a month before I went to see her) with no guarantee of sex. It ended up happening, but regardless I still had a good time and would have done it again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nexus Polaris

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I drove an hour and a half on a complete whim to get some ass at 7 in the morning a few years ago. But I ended up camping out at her house for the next 3 days, so it was worth it.
 
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