"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Would You Do This Chick?
- Thread starter fertileTurtle
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
I'm not doing the cat too diickhole. Haha.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DJinTraining06
Master Don Juan
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Looks pretty good to me, is she eastern european?fertileTurtle said:
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
DJinTraining06 said:
No. Southern American.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Naw, not my type. Not bad looking by any stretch, though.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
I would.
Give me her number.
Give me her number.
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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Sure. I agree with the 6 face and 8 body. That gives an average score of 7 which is doable.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Pretty much that. Was being my horny, outlandish self basically and she starts saying all this implied "i want your diick" type of innuendos out of the blue.speakeasy said:
It is written, it shall be done.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
yup. haha my penis does not discriminate
Oh No....Don't Tell me....
She's a Dude Right....???
And you Bangin her?
And now...you're feeling guilty?
And you want some Emotional Support from the group for your transgressions....RIGHT?
lOL....OK.....we got the picture now!
She's a Dude Right....???
And you Bangin her?
And now...you're feeling guilty?
And you want some Emotional Support from the group for your transgressions....RIGHT?
lOL....OK.....we got the picture now!
fertileTurtle said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.