"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Would You Do This Chick?
- Thread starter fertileTurtle
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
I'm not doing the cat too diickhole. Haha.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DJinTraining06
Master Don Juan
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Looks pretty good to me, is she eastern european?fertileTurtle said:
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
DJinTraining06 said:
No. Southern American.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Naw, not my type. Not bad looking by any stretch, though.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
I would.
Give me her number.
Give me her number.
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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Sure. I agree with the 6 face and 8 body. That gives an average score of 7 which is doable.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Pretty much that. Was being my horny, outlandish self basically and she starts saying all this implied "i want your diick" type of innuendos out of the blue.speakeasy said:
It is written, it shall be done.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
yup. haha my penis does not discriminate
Oh No....Don't Tell me....
She's a Dude Right....???
And you Bangin her?
And now...you're feeling guilty?
And you want some Emotional Support from the group for your transgressions....RIGHT?
lOL....OK.....we got the picture now!
She's a Dude Right....???
And you Bangin her?
And now...you're feeling guilty?
And you want some Emotional Support from the group for your transgressions....RIGHT?
lOL....OK.....we got the picture now!
fertileTurtle said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.