"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Would you ****/date your friend's ex?

hck332

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My good friend was in sexless "relationship" with this girl for a day or two before she LJBF'd him (well he is major afc). Sadly, he really became friends with her hoping that someday she'll get her back by showering her with attention and kissing her ass. That happened last summer, now he's cured (I think) and doesn't hang out with her anymore.

The problem is, she's giving me signals, and I do like her (she' hot hot hot) but I wonder how would my friend react if we started dating.


I'd like to hear your opinion, guys! Would it bother you if one of your best friends started dating your ex-oneitis? And would it bother you if you HE fvcked her few times?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hck332 said:
And would it bother you if you just fvcked her few times?
:crackup: This cracks me up!!! :D

Anyway.. I always get mad if A FRIEND of mine dates my ex, especially if I haven't "fvcked her a few times". She can date anyone else, but not a friend of mine.. that's why there are friends out there - to help me out, not steal my platonical gf.

Last night an ex-buddy of mine started hitting on my current gf. I have never hit on ANY of my buddy's gf's nor ex'es!
Now you know why I call him "ex-buddy" :D

"Bros before h0es" I would say..
 

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I really need to keep a note of the post where i wrote "The Rules" so i can copy and paste it into threads like this one.

Basically i will highlight the bits that apply to this situation.


What you need to do in this situation is ask your mate for concent. He didnt shag her which is good for you. But even if they went out for 2 days....thats enough to make it that you should ask.

He will say you can pursue it anyways. If he does or doesnt want you to....he will say do it. Reason. He will martyr himself for your happiness. (Not that that means anything) If he tried the bull of saying you owe me for it. you just say.....heh....at least i asked.

This way wont piss him off........any other way will get to him and i dont advice it unless he is a "desposable friend"


I have done the above twice and it worked fine both times....both mates respected that i asked.

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Here is the rules in my opinion. Live by them and all is well.

Its a simple case of following the RULES:

A single girl......Fair game
A single girl a mate fancys.....Fair Game
A girl in a relationship with an unkown person.....Fair Game
A girl in a relationship with a mate.....NO GO
An ex of a mate......NO GO without permission
 

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No Buddy Fvcking!

Don't need to be a DJ to figure this one out. :nono:

True friends won't even go there. If they do, there not friends except with my knuckles, elbows, knees and feet. :D
 
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