"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Would you date/marry a fat chick for $$$$?

Scars

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Let's try and keep it realistic, and say she isn't a famous fat celeb or musician etc.. Let's just say she's a nurse or something and makes decent money, has her own house (that's nice and big), drives a nice car etc.. seems to have it all but is missing a man in her life.

The question is.. would you use her for her money in the same sense that women use powerful men for their money?

Being that she's fat, and you're handsome (and know some game), let's say she is completely in love/infatuated with you. There's no doubt she would ever leave you.

Could you sacrifice ****ing hot skinny women the rest of your life to enjoy a life with a fat girl who provides you with everything so that you will never have to work again.. all you have to do is just not **** it up?

Curious.

-Scars
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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zinc4

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no...only a loser would do that....women do it all the time with man...date rich ugly or fat ones for money or social staus....so you are essentially asking if i would like to be like a weak minded and non-independent woman....hell no...i HATE those kind of people
 
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I am not advocating anything.

I have banged manufacturer reps to get special pricing and lead opportunities. As long as they aren't fuglies or warpigs, my bank account smiles with me.
 

Who Dares Win

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Naa I find it wrong to use people, I would have no problem to do what BeginningDj did but faking a relationship no, I find it untolerable for me as man and find it wrong in terms of principles.
 

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What you're describing is a gigolo. I've known men like this, who enter into a relationship with a woman in exchange for financial support. They don't want to work. To me, it doesn't seem like a self respecting way to live your life, but YMMV.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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God no. I don't care if she's worth 100 million.

I would rather date a HB8-10 that uses me for my money.
 

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Lets see here - If she's a cool chick with a bit extra weight then.

Fat girl is just a skinny girl surrounded by a whole lotta chocolate. So drag her azz along to the gym with me and get some good food around, she'll have no choice but to lose dem ££££££ and become skinny.

once skinny she'll become my slave in thankfulness on me saving the hoe from the onset of diabetes.



Disclaimer: If she's a D!ckhead then I aint down for it.

NB. You said fat - Not OBESE. I aint gonna step up to that!
 

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NO NO NO

I only keep fat chicks in my social circle who are 10s in personality and seduction... never mind marrying one for the dollar.
 

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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
DragonBlood said:
NO NO NO

I only keep fat chicks in my social circle who are 10s in personality and seduction... never mind marrying one for the dollar.
:D :D :D So so none then! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you are clever, you can get some $$$ w/o dating/getting married :rockon:
 

DragonBlood

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Purefilth hahaha how did you know!
 

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Fat chance!

No..couldn't do it. All the money in the world couldn't make me get it up for a chick with the body of the Michelin Man.
 

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do you have "game" enough to get her to get into shape? It takes a LOT, but it can be done. Meanwhile, you are banking money, right? It's a LOT easier than changing an azzhole's personality, and costs a lot less than the surgery to make an ugly one pretty.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Masculinity

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Yes, I would! Heck, I would reverse what women do to men: marry her, bang her chubby @ss for a a year or so and divorce her. After I get half her stuff, I would go back to the game and bang even more slim girls wth my nice car and house ; ]
 

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Any chump who would marry a fat chick knowing he can have better options and chooses not because he's too lazy to earn his own living is trash.

Meaning, if the fat ***** ever gets her sh1t together and lost the weight or if another guy showed interest, the chump would be gone in a heart beat. Now if you're smart, you'd use her and not rely on her for the rest of your life.

Most DJ's have their sh1t together in the first place and normally wouldn't have to resort to such tactics.
 

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i mean if we are taking like Johnson Inheritance money **** yes lol. but nurse money hell no.
 

Married Buried

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Does she have a hot face? If so I'd consider it but only if she agrees to go to the gym.
 

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To leave the non-hypothetical world for a moment:

I'm current Fvck buddies with a girl who's made a few pitches at me that sound like this:

- "If my dad doesn't like the car my boyfriend is driving - he takes him to the dealership and buys him a new car."
- "My dad gives my boyfriends money all the time so they can take me out to expensive dinners."
- "If i told my dad I wanted you to quit your job so you could spend more time with me - he'd pay you to do that."

Basically - her dad is filthy rich (like they have 5-6 beach houses across the country!) She has 5 brothers, and is the only daughter and has been treated like a spoiled princess her whole life (her brothers and dad do EVERYTHING she request.)

Which would explain why she's drawn insanely to someone who treats her like she's as special as the next girl...

Haven't considered dating in years.... Not really considering it, but... closer than any of the other chicks I've seen over that period....

She's attractive, but almost everything on her is fake...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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