"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would you date a woman if she had a boyfriend?

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You're on a date with a woman. She tells you she has a long distance boyfriend but they agreed to date other people for the next six months. Would you still date her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nope, hell I would possible stand and leave on spot, waste of time, also its would be a huge red flag, if she was really interested in me she would "forget" to mention that, hell she wouldn't even tells you about any possible ex she would have
 
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Alvafe said:
nope, hell I would possible stand and leave on spot, waste of time, also its would be a huge red flag, if she was really interested in me she would "forget" to mention that, hell she wouldn't even tells you about any possible ex she would have
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They mention it so that when you eventually fvck them they can absolve themselves of any guilt since they "told you about their bf and YOU still seduced them anyway".
 
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BeTheChange said:
They mention it so that when you eventually fvck them they can absolve themselves of any guilt since they "told you about their bf and YOU still seduced them anyway".
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^ This... "seduced" or "raped"

I will flurt and tease a woman with a bf but not date or fvck. I will also ask her something casual about him. Let her answer. Then say "sounds like a decent guy. have him give me a call after he dumps you. I can always use a decent wing man when I go out hunting for poon"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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El Payaso said:
You're on a date with a woman. She tells you she has a long distance boyfriend but they agreed to date other people for the next six months. Would you still date her?
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'Oh that's too bad. I get my bonus at my job in 181 days. It's for 500K and I could take you all over the world in first class flights and hotels. But since you are going back to your boyfriend after 6 months I won't be able to do that.'

Bro are you kidding. Anytime a girl gets specific about something her interest level is very low and she is out to see what she can get for free.
 
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