"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Would you date a woman if she had a boyfriend?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Aesthetix29
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They mention it so that when you eventually fvck them they can absolve themselves of any guilt since they "told you about their bf and YOU still seduced them anyway".
logicallefty
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^ This... "seduced" or "raped"
I will flurt and tease a woman with a bf but not date or fvck. I will also ask her something casual about him. Let her answer. Then say "sounds like a decent guy. have him give me a call after he dumps you. I can always use a decent wing man when I go out hunting for poon"
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
'Oh that's too bad. I get my bonus at my job in 181 days. It's for 500K and I could take you all over the world in first class flights and hotels. But since you are going back to your boyfriend after 6 months I won't be able to do that.'
Bro are you kidding. Anytime a girl gets specific about something her interest level is very low and she is out to see what she can get for free.
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