i believe that the quality of women you attract reflects the inner game, world, life that a man has with himself..
if you always attract women with BPD, then it says something about you, if you always attract women who get abused and cheated on, that says something about you.....
I KNOW THIS, this is why i believe i have a lot of work to do... the girl I'm seeing now has a bunch of problems in her life...
-is a single mom, 1 year old kid,
-kid's dad, her ex, is still around, and they talk, he is the dad.
- she has incredible mood swings and not very emotionally stable
-one day she is all over me, saying I miss you I want you, and calling me 20 times a day, great sex, and out of nowhere, next day she is frozen cold and retreats saying she doesnt want to hurt me...
at this point i just dont react at all, she can say whatever she wants do what she wants, and she always comes back for more of me....
I'm just sick of attracting the wrong kinds of girls, is anyone else has been at this stage and how did you recover, how do you get into attracting better quality women....
at first i thought this was a quality girl, i met her in class, very smart, now she is doing her doctorate in psychology, so i was impressed...
the more i met her, later on i saw all these red flags, but i kinda let those go and kept going.
i learned later on also that she has many guy friends, and is very social and flirty with them, but ofcourse it never escalates with any of them..... do you guys allow this? do you mind? is it healthy to have a woman who is very social and friendly with guy friends.... sometimes in front of you...
sux.... hehe but I think i should just have her as a piece on the side, and move on into finding better quality women.
if you always attract women with BPD, then it says something about you, if you always attract women who get abused and cheated on, that says something about you.....
I KNOW THIS, this is why i believe i have a lot of work to do... the girl I'm seeing now has a bunch of problems in her life...
-is a single mom, 1 year old kid,
-kid's dad, her ex, is still around, and they talk, he is the dad.
- she has incredible mood swings and not very emotionally stable
-one day she is all over me, saying I miss you I want you, and calling me 20 times a day, great sex, and out of nowhere, next day she is frozen cold and retreats saying she doesnt want to hurt me...
at this point i just dont react at all, she can say whatever she wants do what she wants, and she always comes back for more of me....
I'm just sick of attracting the wrong kinds of girls, is anyone else has been at this stage and how did you recover, how do you get into attracting better quality women....
at first i thought this was a quality girl, i met her in class, very smart, now she is doing her doctorate in psychology, so i was impressed...
the more i met her, later on i saw all these red flags, but i kinda let those go and kept going.
i learned later on also that she has many guy friends, and is very social and flirty with them, but ofcourse it never escalates with any of them..... do you guys allow this? do you mind? is it healthy to have a woman who is very social and friendly with guy friends.... sometimes in front of you...
sux.... hehe but I think i should just have her as a piece on the side, and move on into finding better quality women.