"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would you date a former fattie?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bible_Belt

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Unless they've had corrective surgery, they tend to have too much skin, and it's hard to see that until you get them naked.
 

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loose skin like that is a boner killer...if you plan on doing the deed,keep the lights off
 

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SecondHalf said:
For an American woman she is now the average weight! Yes its crazy morbidly obese is still out but being a fattie is accepted in women's circles and among desperate males.

This is the one of the latest meme:

http://weknowmemes.com/2011/10/****-society-this-is-more-attractive-than-this/ (put the four letter f word where it gets censored in the link)

Wow women come in only 2 body type!:rolleyes: you either accept some fattie with thunder thighs or a skeleton.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Talking about being 'determined' and sh*it... What I don't understand about these people is: if I'd be even close to be half as fat as she's now (AFTER the weight loss), I'd be working and dieting my ass off. How do people let it come so far?
 

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DJDamage said:
For an American woman she is now the average weight! Yes its crazy morbidly obese is still out but being a fattie is accepted in women's circles and among desperate males.

This is the one of the latest meme:

http://weknowmemes.com/2011/10/****-society-this-is-more-attractive-than-this/ (put the four letter f word where it gets censored in the link)

Wow women come in only 2 body type!:rolleyes: you either accept some fattie with thunder thighs or a skeleton.
I agree with the picture.
However, I'd rather the skinny one in the picture over the Holstein in the video unless body sliding is my thing.

One of the problems with a former fattie is the diet restrictions you are burdened with. The low carb female complicates things if you cook.
You're limited with restaurants (many Italian, many Asian have nothing for her).

Personally, I'll only date jocks. Has some downsides but their body's are hard and they can move their own furniture.

SH
 

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I dated 2 fatties once....never again. Lesson Learned.
 
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Yes I would. As long as she is motivated. Some girls have lost weight and are motivated to keep it off.
 

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DJDamage said:
For an American woman she is now the average weight! Yes its crazy morbidly obese is still out but being a fattie is accepted in women's circles and among desperate males.

This is the one of the latest meme:

http://weknowmemes.com/2011/10/****-society-this-is-more-attractive-than-this/ (put the four letter f word where it gets censored in the link)

Wow women come in only 2 body type!:rolleyes: you either accept some fattie with thunder thighs or a skeleton.
Um. that link is correct sir. I'd take a curvy marylin monroe than a crack head. what I won't take is the woman in the original post. monroe looks like a normal woman, the other two extremes I'll pass on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Date, sure.

Marry/LTR, probably not.

I do like curvy chicks tho, not more than 20 or so lbs overweight however. Enough to tap that vanilla pudding :p
 

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pdx1138 said:
I dated 2 fatties once....never again. Lesson Learned.
Maybe it was just one fattie and you thought it was two.
 

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I would date her. My usual method is to roll her in flour and then find a wrinkle to stick it in.
 

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San Jose California said:
so the boobs have tons of visible excess skin? could you show a pic to give me an idea?
Not just the boobs, it's everywhere, like a thin chick who lives in the skin of a fat chick. Wherever you grab her, you get a handful of skin.
 

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This girl doesn't have a waistline... she has an equator.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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San Jose California said:
so the boobs have tons of visible excess skin? could you show a pic to give me an idea?
Here's a woman before and after surgery to cut away the excess skin.
I've actually seen a lot worse than this (on TV, not in real life):

http://asps.confex.com/asps/2004am/techprogram/paper_5721.htm

This can happen to guys too. Here's a picture of a guy.
Scroll down a bit and there's another picture of a woman:

http://thegastricbaypass-surgery.com/tag/the-removal-of-excess-skin/
 

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Did you see the trousers she was used to wear? she should donate them to the air ballon association so they wont be wasted, the circus as well could need a new roof.

No seriously she should have a personalized plate to put on her back, but not a car one, considered the size a firetrack one would fit better,also a sign with the speed limit for safety reasons.
 

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The last time I checked, 586-282=286lbs. She is still a fattie.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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