johnnyhero79
Don Juan
This chick who is 290 pounds like me but iam only her friend. I dont want to hurt her feeling so what should i do?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You should let her sit on your face and then eat you.Originally posted by johnnyhero79
This chick who is 290 pounds like me but iam only her friend. I dont want to hurt her feeling so what should i do?
lol:crackup: Is this why you came to the site, to pork beached whales? Tell her the same crap they tell us, I don't want to ruin our friendship.Originally posted by italostud
You should let her sit on your face and then eat you.
lol same here. i guess they can use a table. eww... don't visualize that, its super gross.Originally posted by spider_007
I always wondered haw two fat people could ever have sex.![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.