"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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would you consider this a beta move?

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Hello,

I have been seeing my gf for about a year now. all of her friends find me attractive. So my gf gets jealous whenever they get too friendly. Overall it's been good.

a few weeks ago I told her I was taking her to dinner. But she couldnt make up her mind, I got irritated and told her I would take somebody else. Before I left I could see the twinkle in her eyes then she began preening. I left.

When I got back she began trying to start an argument with him. I just was not in the mood BC I had 2 midterm, and a work project to do. So in a stern way, not yelling, I told get I had 2 exams and a very important work project to accomplish. If she didn't want to tell me what's wrong, then she should leave.
She calmed down.

Then I felt bad and I apologized which I shouldn't have. My apologize made her more pissed off, and now she wouldn't return my text. Her friend told me she doesn't want to talk to me right now.

Question: would it be beta to go to her job so as to talk to her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes. Don't. Sounds like your apology gave her another twinkle - for getting an upper hand on you. Be wise of girls using that tactic.

Why is her friend speaking for her anyway? How old are you both?
 
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serious since when a girl will not send "msg" though her friend if she know who is him? so the girl will rush to tell her how bad he is or not at all?

you know what? don't msg her at all, and don't go to her job, unless its to end it, since she don't bother to answer you just let her contact you if she takes too long better you start to line some new people to hang out
 
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