"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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would you consider this a beta move?

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Hello,

I have been seeing my gf for about a year now. all of her friends find me attractive. So my gf gets jealous whenever they get too friendly. Overall it's been good.

a few weeks ago I told her I was taking her to dinner. But she couldnt make up her mind, I got irritated and told her I would take somebody else. Before I left I could see the twinkle in her eyes then she began preening. I left.

When I got back she began trying to start an argument with him. I just was not in the mood BC I had 2 midterm, and a work project to do. So in a stern way, not yelling, I told get I had 2 exams and a very important work project to accomplish. If she didn't want to tell me what's wrong, then she should leave.
She calmed down.

Then I felt bad and I apologized which I shouldn't have. My apologize made her more pissed off, and now she wouldn't return my text. Her friend told me she doesn't want to talk to me right now.

Question: would it be beta to go to her job so as to talk to her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes. Don't. Sounds like your apology gave her another twinkle - for getting an upper hand on you. Be wise of girls using that tactic.

Why is her friend speaking for her anyway? How old are you both?
 
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serious since when a girl will not send "msg" though her friend if she know who is him? so the girl will rush to tell her how bad he is or not at all?

you know what? don't msg her at all, and don't go to her job, unless its to end it, since she don't bother to answer you just let her contact you if she takes too long better you start to line some new people to hang out
 
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