"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would you call a girl 2 months after a first date?

Renegade357

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Went out with a girl back in September on one date. Wasn't really feeling like dating at that time so I didn't call her. We had decent chemistry and I have been thinking about calling her up recently. What do you guys think? Is it ever too late?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mbas44

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Renegade357 said:
Went out with a girl back in September on one date. Wasn't really feeling like dating at that time so I didn't call her. We had decent chemistry and I have been thinking about calling her up recently. What do you guys think? Is it ever too late?
Well not exactly the same situation but..I got a girls number..invited her out a few days later but never heard back from her, so I didnt bother pursuing. Lo and behold 5 or 6 months later she sent me a text at 1 am asking me to come "cuddle" lol, and she claimed I never actually "asked her out".(goes to show how bizarre girls can be at times). I didnt bother because at that point I honestly had totally forgotten about her and didnt feel like it, but I guess it goes to show its never too late. Im sure others have similar experiences.
 

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Call her up. You never know. Tell her you got busy with work and didn't have a chance to call and was wondering how she's doing. I would do it.
 

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Yes. Just when she asks what you've been up to be sure to have something interesting to say. Not "nothing, how about you?". Then ask her to get together. For drinks.
 
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