"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would you buy a sweater/shirt from Betabrand?

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So, one of my prof was promoting this on twitter? It looked very nice, but it's called Betabrand.

http://www.betabrand.com/

Of all names, why???? Obvious, a bunch betas aren't even bright enough to know/look up what beta means, besides the Greek symbol in math and engineering.

Anyways, just a fun question, would you have bought Betabrand? And wear it around?

I wouldn't, it would remind me (suppose I am) that I am a beta, and now I even have a brand for it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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adam225

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I dunno, if I liked it then yes, if not no. Most people out on the streets don't get the "Alpha and Beta" talk. It's one of those things you pickup on subconscious - not consciously by reading a label on their jacket.
 

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Whats the difference in a name? The biggest thing is to dress well. Learn to become fashionably savvy. If a chick takes that long getting all dolled up do you think she'd settle for a half shaved, singlet stain wearing dude in trackies trying to number close her?
 

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Lol @ :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Coincidence that sosuave is advertising betabrand?

I think the clothes look awful, so no, I wouldn't wear them.
 
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