I've been dating this girl for almost a year now. My family doesn't like her at all. Every conversation with them turns into an argument about her. I feel really bad breaking it off with her because she's a sweet girl and she didn't do anything wrong. How should I handle this?
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Would you break up with someone if your family didn't approve?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I feel for you dude, I had this exact same problem.
While what your family thinks is important, what YOU think is much more so. They dont spend as much time as you do with her. They dont know her like you do, so they aren't in a position to judge like you are.
Just make sure that you judge objectively, and do whats best FOR YOU.
While what your family thinks is important, what YOU think is much more so. They dont spend as much time as you do with her. They dont know her like you do, so they aren't in a position to judge like you are.
Just make sure that you judge objectively, and do whats best FOR YOU.
I'm honestly tired of hearing it from them. I really think it would be best to end it now before it gets any further and she ends up gets more hurt down the road. She already knows there's tension with the family. I just have to figure out how to go about doing this in the least painful way possible, which is going to be hard.
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What country are you from?
Why do they think such?
Is this for marriage?
Why do they think such?
Is this for marriage?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WaterTiger
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In the long run it's your decision , not your family's. I am also curious about what this girl has done to piss off your family so badly.
id ont know the fully story but i bet you his familyi thinks she's a bad influence...
is she ****ing up something in your life? there's a lot you're not telling us...
remember, family will always be there for you... always.. can you say the same thing for her?
it all depends on the reasons behind the tension...
is she ****ing up something in your life? there's a lot you're not telling us...
remember, family will always be there for you... always.. can you say the same thing for her?
it all depends on the reasons behind the tension...
What do your friends say? If they are telling you the same thing, then I'd seriously consider getting rid of her.
Had that once before, when I broke up with a gf and all my family and friends came out afterwards and said "I'm so glad you broke up with her..." My response was "Why the fvck didn't you tell me this before then?!?"
Had that once before, when I broke up with a gf and all my family and friends came out afterwards and said "I'm so glad you broke up with her..." My response was "Why the fvck didn't you tell me this before then?!?"
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If you want to see the girl and your family don't like it, tell em to get fvcked, they don't control your life, you do. :yes:
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