"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Would you believe, never given head?

SmoothTalker

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Just wondering if anyone else finds this as odd as I do. A new girl I've recently started sleeping with is (obviously) sexually active and has been for a few years. She's 18 (I'm early 20s).

Anyway, she claims she has never given a ******* in her life, not because she's particularly opposed to the idea, but it's just somehow never happened.

If it's true I'm hoping to change that, but does anybody else have a really hard time buying that? I mean I always thought it was a natural progression where most girls start giving head before they actually start sex, just like most guys will probably finger a girl before the first time they have actual sex.

Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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(JJ)

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lets call it possible but not probable. i think a likelier scenario is one where she has had some event happen in her life, or she grew up very religious, or something like that, and she thinks that by admitting to having given a blow job before she'll look trashy. we all know how girls can concoct stories to keep you around once they fall for you.
 

Evil_Muska

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Yeah, when me and my ex started dating she claimed she hadn't had sex with another guy, but when she finally gave me oral... TRUST ME, she definitely had done it before. You don't just naturally know how to give head that good.

As to your situation, her being 18, it's possible.
But you'll know for sure when/if she gives it to you whether or not she was being truthful.
 

TheDon1

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Believable. Even if they have, you have to teach them to do it properly, most dont know how to do it well.

I thought this thread was about you never given/gotten head.

Name these things properly.
 

S. Pryor

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She's more than likely had more than a few ****s ****ing her throat in her day I'm sure...BUT I could be wrong. I think it would be pretty gullible to think NO GUY asked her to do it. I just don't believe she wanted to suck your **** and that's not a good sign man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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