"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would you believe, never given head?

SmoothTalker

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Just wondering if anyone else finds this as odd as I do. A new girl I've recently started sleeping with is (obviously) sexually active and has been for a few years. She's 18 (I'm early 20s).

Anyway, she claims she has never given a ******* in her life, not because she's particularly opposed to the idea, but it's just somehow never happened.

If it's true I'm hoping to change that, but does anybody else have a really hard time buying that? I mean I always thought it was a natural progression where most girls start giving head before they actually start sex, just like most guys will probably finger a girl before the first time they have actual sex.

Thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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(JJ)

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lets call it possible but not probable. i think a likelier scenario is one where she has had some event happen in her life, or she grew up very religious, or something like that, and she thinks that by admitting to having given a blow job before she'll look trashy. we all know how girls can concoct stories to keep you around once they fall for you.
 

Evil_Muska

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Yeah, when me and my ex started dating she claimed she hadn't had sex with another guy, but when she finally gave me oral... TRUST ME, she definitely had done it before. You don't just naturally know how to give head that good.

As to your situation, her being 18, it's possible.
But you'll know for sure when/if she gives it to you whether or not she was being truthful.
 

TheDon1

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Believable. Even if they have, you have to teach them to do it properly, most dont know how to do it well.

I thought this thread was about you never given/gotten head.

Name these things properly.
 

S. Pryor

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She's more than likely had more than a few ****s ****ing her throat in her day I'm sure...BUT I could be wrong. I think it would be pretty gullible to think NO GUY asked her to do it. I just don't believe she wanted to suck your **** and that's not a good sign man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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