Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Would you believe, never given head?

SmoothTalker

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Just wondering if anyone else finds this as odd as I do. A new girl I've recently started sleeping with is (obviously) sexually active and has been for a few years. She's 18 (I'm early 20s).

Anyway, she claims she has never given a ******* in her life, not because she's particularly opposed to the idea, but it's just somehow never happened.

If it's true I'm hoping to change that, but does anybody else have a really hard time buying that? I mean I always thought it was a natural progression where most girls start giving head before they actually start sex, just like most guys will probably finger a girl before the first time they have actual sex.

Thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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(JJ)

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lets call it possible but not probable. i think a likelier scenario is one where she has had some event happen in her life, or she grew up very religious, or something like that, and she thinks that by admitting to having given a blow job before she'll look trashy. we all know how girls can concoct stories to keep you around once they fall for you.
 

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Yeah, when me and my ex started dating she claimed she hadn't had sex with another guy, but when she finally gave me oral... TRUST ME, she definitely had done it before. You don't just naturally know how to give head that good.

As to your situation, her being 18, it's possible.
But you'll know for sure when/if she gives it to you whether or not she was being truthful.
 

TheDon1

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Believable. Even if they have, you have to teach them to do it properly, most dont know how to do it well.

I thought this thread was about you never given/gotten head.

Name these things properly.
 

S. Pryor

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She's more than likely had more than a few ****s ****ing her throat in her day I'm sure...BUT I could be wrong. I think it would be pretty gullible to think NO GUY asked her to do it. I just don't believe she wanted to suck your **** and that's not a good sign man.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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