"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Would you become more attentive of your wife if she cheated in a torrid love affair?

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MatureDJ said:
http://theweek.com/article/index/99512/the-last-word-he-said-he-was-leaving-she-ignored-him

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It sounds like to me like he should have traded her in for later model. An older woman's only value is in her devotion, which an affair shatters.

My opinion: :down:

Pretty much. What kind of beta sad sack was this guy that he couldn't get a better woman? I'm guessing fear of loss and being alone was his downfall. Basically a lack of options. Goes to show you why guys in relationships still need to have game, if not to keep the woman interested then at least to keep her on her toes with the knowledge in the back of her mind that other women will snap him up the first chance they get if she drops the ball. Basically having "hand" in the relationship.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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