Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Would you become more attentive of your wife if she cheated in a torrid love affair?

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MatureDJ said:
http://theweek.com/article/index/99512/the-last-word-he-said-he-was-leaving-she-ignored-him

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It sounds like to me like he should have traded her in for later model. An older woman's only value is in her devotion, which an affair shatters.

My opinion: :down:

Pretty much. What kind of beta sad sack was this guy that he couldn't get a better woman? I'm guessing fear of loss and being alone was his downfall. Basically a lack of options. Goes to show you why guys in relationships still need to have game, if not to keep the woman interested then at least to keep her on her toes with the knowledge in the back of her mind that other women will snap him up the first chance they get if she drops the ball. Basically having "hand" in the relationship.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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