"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Alternatively though if you've got a buddy you can trust 100% have him be at the club next time to observe her behaviour and tell you if nothing really does happen with the guy or guys that buy her drinks such as her and the guy leaving together etc.
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What you are "ok with" is besides the point cause women will do what they want... Just be glad she is giving you a turn and move on when your time is up.... which it is when she is out have ing men buy her drinks and telling you nothing happened.inzone50 said:If your LTR g/f went to a club with her friends and a guy there asked her if he could buy her a drink.. she accepted but nothing happen between them?
would you have a talk with her about it?
Be glad she gave you a turn? You're joking, right?DonGorgon said:What you are "ok with" is besides the point cause women will do what they want... Just be glad she is giving you a turn and move on when your time is up.... which it is when she is out have ing men buy her drinks and telling you nothing happened.
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Well you dont have to be glad but that is all you get from modern , independent women is a turn to f them then its the next guys turn...tick37 said:Be glad she gave you a turn? You're joking, right?
Yup, don't be so weak. If she's sees that weakness in you, she'll probably run anyway. You've got to be better than the other guys and getting jealous puts her above you, and you'll lose. Take it as a compliment and tell her you think it's great.sav said:if you cant trust your girl to chill with her friends on her own without u, u have to ask urself if this relationship is right for you.... and before you jump onto the next relationship u need to work out ur jealousy issues... its a weakness.... guys buying girls drinks is what happens in clubs... girls rarely decline.. its free ****..w ould you decline some free stuff? i dont think so.
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