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If your LTR g/f went to a club with her friends and a guy there asked her if he could buy her a drink.. she accepted but nothing happen between them?

would you have a talk with her about it?
 

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go with her next time, and tell her to slide you the drinks she gets

free drinks for you
 

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Was the first fragmented sentence an actual question? I'll have to say no for the second question.
 

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ready123 gave the best answer.

Alternatively though if you've got a buddy you can trust 100% have him be at the club next time to observe her behaviour and tell you if nothing really does happen with the guy or guys that buy her drinks such as her and the guy leaving together etc.
 

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No it would be inappropriate unless she already knew the guy as a friend.
 

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You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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inzone50 said:
If your LTR g/f went to a club with her friends and a guy there asked her if he could buy her a drink.. she accepted but nothing happen between them?

would you have a talk with her about it?
What you are "ok with" is besides the point cause women will do what they want... Just be glad she is giving you a turn and move on when your time is up.... which it is when she is out have ing men buy her drinks and telling you nothing happened.
 

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DonGorgon said:
What you are "ok with" is besides the point cause women will do what they want... Just be glad she is giving you a turn and move on when your time is up.... which it is when she is out have ing men buy her drinks and telling you nothing happened.
Be glad she gave you a turn? You're joking, right?
 

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if you cant trust your girl to chill with her friends on her own without u, u have to ask urself if this relationship is right for you.... and before you jump onto the next relationship u need to work out ur jealousy issues... its a weakness.... guys buying girls drinks is what happens in clubs... girls rarely decline.. its free ****..w ould you decline some free stuff? i dont think so.
 

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sav said:
if you cant trust your girl to chill with her friends on her own without u, u have to ask urself if this relationship is right for you.... and before you jump onto the next relationship u need to work out ur jealousy issues... its a weakness.... guys buying girls drinks is what happens in clubs... girls rarely decline.. its free ****..w ould you decline some free stuff? i dont think so.
Yup, don't be so weak. If she's sees that weakness in you, she'll probably run anyway. You've got to be better than the other guys and getting jealous puts her above you, and you'll lose. Take it as a compliment and tell her you think it's great.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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