"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Would you be interested viewing movies in which the lead actress is fat?

MatureDJ

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Evidently, a lot of the A-list actresses are complaining that they have to lose weight for their roles.

https://www.yahoo.com/beauty/sophie...-whove-asked-lose-weight-roles-163750587.html
“It’s so much harder when you’re 35 and hate working out,” said [Kirsten] Dunst."
My opinion: What I am concerned about is that these chicks might be able to shame the producers into letting them get the starring role, even when fat, leaving us to view movies with men macking on these fat chicks. Of course, I don't watch many standard movies these days (I prefer PBS-style documentaries), and especially not chick flicks (except when I visit my sister who seems to always get these movies from Netflix). However, I think that it would be even worse for chicks to get the idea that because leading women are fat, that makes it OK for them to remain fat. :down:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If her being fat has to do with the role she's in like say 'The Heat' for example, I wouldn't mind. But I can't see a fat Scarlett Johansson in The Avengers or a chubby Wonder Woman or some **** like that.
 

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It depends...who it is and what type of role it is...if it's a comedy or drama, I wouldn't care less...I think that chick from Bridesmaids is hilarious...

If it's her supposed to be looking sexy and having nude scenes then hell to the no...
 

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Depends on the story. Is the movie about heart disease and diabetes?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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