"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Would you be happy for your daughter to be treated the way you treat women?

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Unfortunately, you don't get to pick the gender of the offspring.

But you can pick the mother. And you can choose what behavior you exhibit.

Pick carefully.

What @SeymourCake said is key. Your daughter's expectations of a man are imprinted from you. Raise her with guidance, discipline & love & she will learn appropriate behavior, self discipline & self respect.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would like my daughters to be with a man who treats his women like me. The only part I won't like is him enabling some real spoiled behaviors that makes her a worse person.
 

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Yes, my daughter is wired like any other female. I'd rather her have a man with frame like mine treat her like I treat women so she stays with him. I dont like the alternative that's inevitable; having him be a blue pill beta she cheats on and catches some STD and/or dumps him and ruins his life and/or becomes a single mommy.

My daughter will be 13 next week and I bust on her all the time. Been doing it her whole life. One day she was really really sick and I went into care giver mode. I called her 'honey' which I never ever do. She said 'ewww dad don't call me that it doesn't sound right coming from you'. I said 'Ok sh!thead I won't!' She said 'that's better'
 

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Yes, my daughter is wired like any other female. I'd rather her have a man with frame like mine treat her like I treat women so she stays with him. I dont like the alternative that's inevitable; having him be a blue pill beta she cheats on and catches some STD and/or dumps him and ruins his life and/or becomes a single mommy.

My daughter will be 13 next week and I bust on her all the time. Been doing it her whole life. One day she was really really sick and I went into care giver mode. I called her 'honey' which I never ever do. She said 'ewww dad don't call me that it doesn't sound right coming from you'. I said 'Ok sh!thead I won't!' She said 'that's better'
So your Alpha enough not to get cheated upon?
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, but how you going to stop it if that's what she wants to do. Some women cheat on their Alpha men to one up them.
You stop it by seeing the bad signs she develops towards you and dump her before she gets a chance to cheat on you. Women give signs and clues that tell a man what he needs to know. it took me a lot of pain and hardship of being both cheated on and dumped to develop the skills to recognize these signs.
 
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