"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would you be happy for your daughter to be treated the way you treat women?

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Unfortunately, you don't get to pick the gender of the offspring.

But you can pick the mother. And you can choose what behavior you exhibit.

Pick carefully.

What @SeymourCake said is key. Your daughter's expectations of a man are imprinted from you. Raise her with guidance, discipline & love & she will learn appropriate behavior, self discipline & self respect.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would like my daughters to be with a man who treats his women like me. The only part I won't like is him enabling some real spoiled behaviors that makes her a worse person.
 

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Yes, my daughter is wired like any other female. I'd rather her have a man with frame like mine treat her like I treat women so she stays with him. I dont like the alternative that's inevitable; having him be a blue pill beta she cheats on and catches some STD and/or dumps him and ruins his life and/or becomes a single mommy.

My daughter will be 13 next week and I bust on her all the time. Been doing it her whole life. One day she was really really sick and I went into care giver mode. I called her 'honey' which I never ever do. She said 'ewww dad don't call me that it doesn't sound right coming from you'. I said 'Ok sh!thead I won't!' She said 'that's better'
 

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Yes, my daughter is wired like any other female. I'd rather her have a man with frame like mine treat her like I treat women so she stays with him. I dont like the alternative that's inevitable; having him be a blue pill beta she cheats on and catches some STD and/or dumps him and ruins his life and/or becomes a single mommy.

My daughter will be 13 next week and I bust on her all the time. Been doing it her whole life. One day she was really really sick and I went into care giver mode. I called her 'honey' which I never ever do. She said 'ewww dad don't call me that it doesn't sound right coming from you'. I said 'Ok sh!thead I won't!' She said 'that's better'
So your Alpha enough not to get cheated upon?
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah, but how you going to stop it if that's what she wants to do. Some women cheat on their Alpha men to one up them.
You stop it by seeing the bad signs she develops towards you and dump her before she gets a chance to cheat on you. Women give signs and clues that tell a man what he needs to know. it took me a lot of pain and hardship of being both cheated on and dumped to develop the skills to recognize these signs.
 
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