would you ask a woman out even if you sense there is low interest?

[bookman]

question is in the title

so I am pretty sure this woman is not interested in me, she never initiates contact or asks about me or anything, but currently there are no other options. I don't really care about her much myself, but I am still considerign the option. would i be worth the risk?

 

[Megaman XIV]

Ask her out anyway. You have nothing to lose. She might be waiting for you to make a move, so get like Nike and Just do it! Don't display this is your oneitis.

Done deal. Now come back here with posted results.

 

[Iceberg]

Well, it won't kill you I guess.

Have you been trying to build interest with her? Hopefully so.

Good luck.

 

[bookman]

I had previous threads about her, used to be in my class(fall semester over) nerdy and very beautiful
she kinda scares me because she's the goody 2 shoes type, with very high grades and puts work as a op top priority while I screwed up pharmacy and moving to computer science

not to mention being beautiful is scary enough

I talk to her like once a week on the messenger to ask her how se is doign in exams and such, she never ever texts me(I got a merry christmas text on my mobile, oh joy ) personnal interactions at the university mainly revolve around schoolwork only, I maintain high level of eye contact and so does she, but I do not see interest
she never tries to contact me...

 

[Megaman XIV]

This is like a ? box from the Japanese version of Super Mario 2. It could be a coin, could be a fire flower, could be an invincible starman, could be a 1-up, could be a poison mushroom.

Just make a move or the potential will just sit there for someone else. You really don't know. And listen to iceberg too!

 

[Tyson420]

you could ask her how her weekend went.

 

[bookman]

there is dignity to consider and about 15 mutual friends in common I'm leaning more towards no

edit: she spent it studying, as she spends most of her life, except this break between semesters
another edit: then again who knows she could be studying ahead

nerds scare me more than beautiful women, nerdy girls have high standarts

 

[Tyson420]

ok... what is she going to do for spring break?

does she want a study partner? **** i dunno she has to like DOING SOMETHING! She actually reminds me of this girl who spends her days on farmville on Facebook.

 

[mustfirstregister]

risk? what risk? are you losing money on it?

 

[MacDaddy]

Ask her in an ambiguous way or like it is possibly a group thing and others will be there (they will of course not be able to make it)
I was once offered tickets for a tennis match ad I told a girl who liked tennis very much that I had the tickets was she interested. she said she didn't think she could make it and I said no worries I will give them to another chap who also liked tennis a lot.
I said I couldn't make it and that was why I looking to give them away which I did