"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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would you ask a woman out even if you sense there is low interest?

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question is in the title

so I am pretty sure this woman is not interested in me, she never initiates contact or asks about me or anything, but currently there are no other options. I don't really care about her much myself, but I am still considerign the option. would i be worth the risk?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ask her out anyway. You have nothing to lose. She might be waiting for you to make a move, so get like Nike and Just do it! Don't display this is your oneitis.

Done deal. Now come back here with posted results.
 
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Well, it won't kill you I guess.

Have you been trying to build interest with her? Hopefully so.

Good luck.
 
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I had previous threads about her, used to be in my class(fall semester over) nerdy and very beautiful
she kinda scares me because she's the goody 2 shoes type, with very high grades and puts work as a op top priority while I screwed up pharmacy and moving to computer science :p

not to mention being beautiful is scary enough

I talk to her like once a week on the messenger to ask her how se is doign in exams and such, she never ever texts me(I got a merry christmas text on my mobile, oh joy :p ) personnal interactions at the university mainly revolve around schoolwork only, I maintain high level of eye contact and so does she, but I do not see interest
she never tries to contact me...
 
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This is like a ? box from the Japanese version of Super Mario 2. It could be a coin, could be a fire flower, could be an invincible starman, could be a 1-up, could be a poison mushroom.

Just make a move or the potential will just sit there for someone else. You really don't know. And listen to iceberg too!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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there is dignity to consider and about 15 mutual friends in common :p I'm leaning more towards no

edit: she spent it studying, as she spends most of her life, except this break between semesters
another edit: then again who knows :p she could be studying ahead

nerds scare me more than beautiful women, nerdy girls have high standarts
 
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ok... what is she going to do for spring break?

does she want a study partner? **** i dunno she has to like DOING SOMETHING! She actually reminds me of this girl who spends her days on farmville on Facebook.
 
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Ask her in an ambiguous way or like it is possibly a group thing and others will be there (they will of course not be able to make it)
I was once offered tickets for a tennis match ad I told a girl who liked tennis very much that I had the tickets was she interested. she said she didn't think she could make it and I said no worries I will give them to another chap who also liked tennis a lot.
I said I couldn't make it and that was why I looking to give them away which I did
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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