MrNiceGuy23
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Just farming opinions to see if I'm being justified or not.
How would you feel if your girlfriend told you she wanted to live with a guy that wasn't you?
My girlfriend and I are at different schools about an hour or so apart and she recently informed me she was going to live with one of her friends (female) but also a guy as well. She said not to worry because she thinks he's gay but then told me how he's always talking about women he likes.
I have never met the guy before nor would I be uncomfortable with it even if I did because I just think it's inviting a bad situation to arise.
I'm trusting but I don't trust men and again, a little nothing could turn into a lot of something due to the shared surroundings. Girl hangs out with guy a lot, watch movies together, get a little cozy one night, things get worse, etc.
Am I unjustified for expressing my discomfort with this situation? She told me she wouldn't live with him if I didn't want her to but couldn't understand why I had a problem with it.
How would you feel if your girlfriend told you she wanted to live with a guy that wasn't you?
My girlfriend and I are at different schools about an hour or so apart and she recently informed me she was going to live with one of her friends (female) but also a guy as well. She said not to worry because she thinks he's gay but then told me how he's always talking about women he likes.
I have never met the guy before nor would I be uncomfortable with it even if I did because I just think it's inviting a bad situation to arise.
I'm trusting but I don't trust men and again, a little nothing could turn into a lot of something due to the shared surroundings. Girl hangs out with guy a lot, watch movies together, get a little cozy one night, things get worse, etc.
Am I unjustified for expressing my discomfort with this situation? She told me she wouldn't live with him if I didn't want her to but couldn't understand why I had a problem with it.