"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would yhou Neg an chick (hb 6-7) who thinks

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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6-7? nope. I only neg girls that I'm interested in and even then I rarely use negs. I find negs are used by guys who subconciously feel they are "lesser beings" than their targets. It's a crutch and a dirty little trick. If you walk the walk and have strong inner game, you don't need to use negs. The girls should already see you as "worthy".
 

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let alone some average looking guy who happens to be confident and has nice clothes on
Maybe that's how you classify yourself, but I don't put myself in that category.

And where did i mention confidence and nice clothes? I'd hope that you don't think that this is the only key to getting the really hot girls?

Go to the clubs and yes, you'll find the 9's and 10's have that attitude. Do a cold approach in some random location and yes, you'll find that attitude. (they put up the front to keep you away, because you're not worthy. If you are truely excellent, the shield will go down and most times, never even be up in the first place)

Meet them as they come along, through friends, work etc... (normal situations) and you will never get that attitude... unless you are just an average joe who makes it blatantly obvious he's trying to cut her down a few notches to his level.
 
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