"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Would yhou Neg an chick (hb 6-7) who thinks

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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6-7? nope. I only neg girls that I'm interested in and even then I rarely use negs. I find negs are used by guys who subconciously feel they are "lesser beings" than their targets. It's a crutch and a dirty little trick. If you walk the walk and have strong inner game, you don't need to use negs. The girls should already see you as "worthy".
 

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let alone some average looking guy who happens to be confident and has nice clothes on
Maybe that's how you classify yourself, but I don't put myself in that category.

And where did i mention confidence and nice clothes? I'd hope that you don't think that this is the only key to getting the really hot girls?

Go to the clubs and yes, you'll find the 9's and 10's have that attitude. Do a cold approach in some random location and yes, you'll find that attitude. (they put up the front to keep you away, because you're not worthy. If you are truely excellent, the shield will go down and most times, never even be up in the first place)

Meet them as they come along, through friends, work etc... (normal situations) and you will never get that attitude... unless you are just an average joe who makes it blatantly obvious he's trying to cut her down a few notches to his level.
 
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