"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would yhou Neg an chick (hb 6-7) who thinks

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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6-7? nope. I only neg girls that I'm interested in and even then I rarely use negs. I find negs are used by guys who subconciously feel they are "lesser beings" than their targets. It's a crutch and a dirty little trick. If you walk the walk and have strong inner game, you don't need to use negs. The girls should already see you as "worthy".
 

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let alone some average looking guy who happens to be confident and has nice clothes on
Maybe that's how you classify yourself, but I don't put myself in that category.

And where did i mention confidence and nice clothes? I'd hope that you don't think that this is the only key to getting the really hot girls?

Go to the clubs and yes, you'll find the 9's and 10's have that attitude. Do a cold approach in some random location and yes, you'll find that attitude. (they put up the front to keep you away, because you're not worthy. If you are truely excellent, the shield will go down and most times, never even be up in the first place)

Meet them as they come along, through friends, work etc... (normal situations) and you will never get that attitude... unless you are just an average joe who makes it blatantly obvious he's trying to cut her down a few notches to his level.
 
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