"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would ya do this?

Jizz

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Would you just turn up on a girls door and say

"Hey so i was the nieghbour hood, and im a huuuge fan of spontanious dates, so fancy coming for a walk?"

Really tempted to do it with the girl i like atm!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kaptain

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How about...

Jizz -> Hi, my names is Jizz.

Girlie -> Hi. my names is Girlie.

Jizz -> Want to come for a walk.


Save the "im a huuuge fan of spontanious dates" for later in the conversation
 

dancin-diva00

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It could go either way. If you're charming and hot, it might work.

If not she might get a little creeped out and think you want to hurt her.
 

Jizz

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The girl im thinking about doing this knows me

Could work a treat but im a lil worried shell just laugh in my face, but hey, you gotta take a risk to fight for your desires right?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Morphiex

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itl be more like :

you:hi , im ......
Her: (just stares at you )?
You:wanna go for a walk ?
Her: Fu\ck off.... (and slams the door on your face)

hehe lots of people are kinda too optimistic about these things , it wont be like :

you : Hi , im ......
Her : Hey , im ......
You : wanna go for a walk ?
Her : ohhh your so sweet , come in and fu\ck me now ...

some **** just dont work , and i think doing this to a stranger or someone u barely know wont go well ....

but hey i could be wrong , so prove me wrong =)

peace
 

splinterkb

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Yeah.. it might work in a movie or something, but I personally think the girl would be creeped out and confused if some random dude came up to her that she doesn't even know the name of, and asked her on a spontanious date. It also could backfire because she'll probably be doing something instead of just standing around.
 

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You say she knows you. Does she also know that you know where she lives? If you're not sure she knows, then don't just show up. That would creep her out. Personally, I usually don't arrive unannounced. Call her up when you "happen to be in the area"....and see what she says...
 

Jizz

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yes she knows, i stayed round hers one weekend,
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Q-Pid

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Dude tell us everything in regards to how you know her/what you've done with her. The more information we have to go on, the better we can suggest what you do.
 

Distant Light

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Well you can give it a try but i'd recommend you call on your cell phone saying following.

Her: Hello?
You: Whats up
Her: Nothing blah blah blah
You: Are you adventurous?
Her: Yes (see bottom for NO)
You: Well I'm in the area get dress and lets________ i'll be overthere in 5-10 mins.
Her: umm ok
You: Ok bye


Her: No
You: Thats too bad I had a big surprise for you.
Her: What.. What is it?
You: Na forget it (playful tone)
Her:plzzz
You: Ok i'm in the area get dress and lets_______

(The surprise could be anything, from a kiss too just her seeing you.)

Be able to calibrate so you won't be stuck on what to say.
 

mrswabe

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so you are going to visit her house by surprise?

better not do that!

WORST CASE SCENARIO
YOU: Hi! I was in the neighborhood, would you like to go for a walk?
HER: You surprised me. You caught me at a bad time.
ENRIQUE ( some ******* who is fcuking her ): Honey! Who is at the door?
HER: Just some salesman. ( OUCH! )
ENRIQUE: Well then close the door and get back to sucking my cook.

better do that!

BEST CASE SCENARIO
YOU: Hi! I was in the neighborhood, would you like to go for a walk?
HER: You surprised me. You caught me at a bad time. I have some company.
TARA ( her lesbian fcuk buddy ): Who's at the door?
HER: A friend of mine.
TARA: Why don't you invite him in for some menage a trois action.
 

Rada

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It's kind of risky and probably won't work......though it's good for ur own experience....u'll learn a lot from these things. So, just for u, i would say go for it.....but for ur succes, I would say...the phone thing is better.
 
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