"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Would ya do this?

Jizz

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2005
Messages
153
Reaction score
0
Would you just turn up on a girls door and say

"Hey so i was the nieghbour hood, and im a huuuge fan of spontanious dates, so fancy coming for a walk?"

Really tempted to do it with the girl i like atm!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Kaptain

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 7, 2005
Messages
133
Reaction score
0
Age
49
How about...

Jizz -> Hi, my names is Jizz.

Girlie -> Hi. my names is Girlie.

Jizz -> Want to come for a walk.


Save the "im a huuuge fan of spontanious dates" for later in the conversation
 

dancin-diva00

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 1, 2006
Messages
10
Reaction score
0
It could go either way. If you're charming and hot, it might work.

If not she might get a little creeped out and think you want to hurt her.
 

Jizz

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2005
Messages
153
Reaction score
0
The girl im thinking about doing this knows me

Could work a treat but im a lil worried shell just laugh in my face, but hey, you gotta take a risk to fight for your desires right?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Morphiex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2005
Messages
662
Reaction score
1
itl be more like :

you:hi , im ......
Her: (just stares at you )?
You:wanna go for a walk ?
Her: Fu\ck off.... (and slams the door on your face)

hehe lots of people are kinda too optimistic about these things , it wont be like :

you : Hi , im ......
Her : Hey , im ......
You : wanna go for a walk ?
Her : ohhh your so sweet , come in and fu\ck me now ...

some **** just dont work , and i think doing this to a stranger or someone u barely know wont go well ....

but hey i could be wrong , so prove me wrong =)

peace
 

splinterkb

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2004
Messages
750
Reaction score
4
Age
40
Location
Minnesota
Yeah.. it might work in a movie or something, but I personally think the girl would be creeped out and confused if some random dude came up to her that she doesn't even know the name of, and asked her on a spontanious date. It also could backfire because she'll probably be doing something instead of just standing around.
 

LongDrinkofWater

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2005
Messages
231
Reaction score
0
You say she knows you. Does she also know that you know where she lives? If you're not sure she knows, then don't just show up. That would creep her out. Personally, I usually don't arrive unannounced. Call her up when you "happen to be in the area"....and see what she says...
 

Jizz

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2005
Messages
153
Reaction score
0
yes she knows, i stayed round hers one weekend,
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Q-Pid

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2005
Messages
526
Reaction score
3
Dude tell us everything in regards to how you know her/what you've done with her. The more information we have to go on, the better we can suggest what you do.
 

Distant Light

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 9, 2005
Messages
669
Reaction score
8
Location
New York
Well you can give it a try but i'd recommend you call on your cell phone saying following.

Her: Hello?
You: Whats up
Her: Nothing blah blah blah
You: Are you adventurous?
Her: Yes (see bottom for NO)
You: Well I'm in the area get dress and lets________ i'll be overthere in 5-10 mins.
Her: umm ok
You: Ok bye


Her: No
You: Thats too bad I had a big surprise for you.
Her: What.. What is it?
You: Na forget it (playful tone)
Her:plzzz
You: Ok i'm in the area get dress and lets_______

(The surprise could be anything, from a kiss too just her seeing you.)

Be able to calibrate so you won't be stuck on what to say.
 

mrswabe

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2005
Messages
42
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
Philippines
so you are going to visit her house by surprise?

better not do that!

WORST CASE SCENARIO
YOU: Hi! I was in the neighborhood, would you like to go for a walk?
HER: You surprised me. You caught me at a bad time.
ENRIQUE ( some ******* who is fcuking her ): Honey! Who is at the door?
HER: Just some salesman. ( OUCH! )
ENRIQUE: Well then close the door and get back to sucking my cook.

better do that!

BEST CASE SCENARIO
YOU: Hi! I was in the neighborhood, would you like to go for a walk?
HER: You surprised me. You caught me at a bad time. I have some company.
TARA ( her lesbian fcuk buddy ): Who's at the door?
HER: A friend of mine.
TARA: Why don't you invite him in for some menage a trois action.
 

Rada

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2005
Messages
32
Reaction score
0
Location
Romania
It's kind of risky and probably won't work......though it's good for ur own experience....u'll learn a lot from these things. So, just for u, i would say go for it.....but for ur succes, I would say...the phone thing is better.
 
Top