“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Would u take yourself out of a r-ship if you felt you werent ready?

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This is in relation to MOTU's posts about his breakup. If you felt very needy, insecure, jealous and acting just not like your "usual" self, would you take yourself out of it? Would you take the risk of losing someone you really care for in order to deal with some your own deeps seated issues? Even if the girl is somewhat accepting/ignorant about the profoundness of these problems?

Even if you really really liked this girl, and she was super into you and you guys would have had a "great" thing going if only you got your shyt together, would you take yourself out of the relationship or continue to pretend you're a real Don Juan even when you shutter in disbelief when you realize how much of an AFC you truly are in the relationship?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sounds familiar

why that's basically what i went through in the last 2months of my 5 month relationship...

it's simple if you dont like the way you're acting you must stop it and basically cut her off... this girl is bringing in a manipulated version of your true self. if you cant be yourself around her and dont like what she has turned you into... then it's time to say goodbye...

sometimes sacrificing her is more important then sacrificing your true-self
 
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interesting. So you took yourself out of it then as means of saying basically "I'm goign to fukk this relationship up sooner or later anyways, might as well do it now"?

or did u just suck if up and hope she didnt notice?
 
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If you want some time apart to deal with your issues, realize that the relationship will have changed when you are ready to come back to it. That's part of the lesson from MOTU recent posts. So if you really care about her, don't take that risk.

Would you rather work these issues out and be alone? Or would you rather work them out and at least have someone there?

Still you need to be true to yourself so do what you know is right considering everything involved. Does it really matter if you're a DJ or a closet AFC in a relationship? Before you came to this site, what was your goal? To be a DJ or just to have a good relationship?
 
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Originally posted by DarkCityNight
If you want some time apart to deal with your issues, realize that the relationship will have changed when you are ready to come back to it. That's part of the lesson from MOTU recent posts. So if you really care about her, don't take that risk.

But what if you knew the way she was "making you feel" (implying it was always about your issues and not hers that really drove you to chumpness) will mean the end of the relationship anyways? Do yiu save face, save you dignity and back out of it. Or do you think its wiser to try to battle through it while in your relationhip knowing very well that verbalizing your problems to you girlfriend can perhaps be seen as emasculating?

Would you rather work these issues out and be alone? Or would you rather work them out and at least have someone there?

Still you need to be true to yourself so do what you know is right considering everything involved. Does it really matter if you're a DJ or a closet AFC in a relationship? Before you came to this site, what was your goal? To be a DJ or just to have a good relationship?
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For your last questions, I came to this site just to learn how to pick up girls when i was 18-19 or so. That was it. Now, at 22, im in a relationhip, which may or may not last and so being A MAN in this realm poses its own challenges. The notion of being a DJ doesnt change much. Your mindset will hopefully always be the same.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yo JB, whats good? Anyways mate in relation to your question, I think this is something that is not so cut and dry, straight forward so to speak. There are HUNDREDS of variables in each given situation, I think that it is just a decision you have to make at the time. You have to take your emotions into account, but not act on them instantly, you also must use rational logic. Make your decision and see where it takes you, not everything in life can be controlled. Sometimes you just gotta take the chance and learn from your mistake.

If you need time apart as in MOTU's situation, and if you do end up getting back with her after only a few weeks, OR MONTHS, you two should be able to work through your problem, if you cant, you had no hope in the LR anyways!
 
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