"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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would u rather...

would u rather be

  • confident

    Votes: 11 84.6%

  • funny

    Votes: 2 15.4%
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wuts up yall. i was jus thinkin right now about how some people are born confident and funny. it helps em get wit girls easily cus it comes natural.....but if u could only pick one trait, which would u hav? would u rather be jus funny or jus confident? jus a hypothetical question.....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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which one do u think would be harder to develop, confidence or humor? cus if ur already funny it could be a lil easier to be more confident cus u hav somethin to back up ur swagger....but it might be a lil harder to develop a sense of humor if ur confident n serious
 
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You can't become funny, you become confident through experence so confidence is all you need, you dont have to be that funny, just not cheezy stupid.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i'm already funny enough i don't need to be funnier but i'm not always confident sometimes i am sometimes i'm not
 
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Confidence for sure.

You can hang around funny people when you aren't, and eventually their wit will rub off on you. You'll start thinking faster and become funny yourself.

Hang around confident people when you aren't? You'll just feel more inadequate and insecure.
 
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