wuts up yall. i was jus thinkin right now about how some people are born confident and funny. it helps em get wit girls easily cus it comes natural.....but if u could only pick one trait, which would u hav? would u rather be jus funny or jus confident? jus a hypothetical question.....
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
would u rather...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Remulak
Senior Don Juan
Confidence hands down, women aren't looking for a comedian. They're looking for a confident guy to fyck the shyt out of them.
which one do u think would be harder to develop, confidence or humor? cus if ur already funny it could be a lil easier to be more confident cus u hav somethin to back up ur swagger....but it might be a lil harder to develop a sense of humor if ur confident n serious
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
i'm already funny enough i don't need to be funnier but i'm not always confident sometimes i am sometimes i'm not
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Confidence for sure.
You can hang around funny people when you aren't, and eventually their wit will rub off on you. You'll start thinking faster and become funny yourself.
Hang around confident people when you aren't? You'll just feel more inadequate and insecure.
You can hang around funny people when you aren't, and eventually their wit will rub off on you. You'll start thinking faster and become funny yourself.
Hang around confident people when you aren't? You'll just feel more inadequate and insecure.