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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
would this guy get 8s and 9s...rate
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
salinechow
Senior Don Juan
Yep. So long as he inner frame too.
sylvester the cat
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Depends on his:_sideways_ said:
Level of education
Profession/Earnings
Dress style
Intelligence
Social Status
Level of confidence
Tell your 'buddy' more info is needed than just a mugshot
It depends, if you have to rate just by the picture, then no...But if you get a chance to talk to a guy and see what kind of person he is, he can end up even with 10. Lots of girls don't want super hot guys but good and smart ones... I meet such girls all the time
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
salinechow
Senior Don Juan
miketan70 said:It depends, if you have to rate just by the picture, then no...But if you get a chance to talk to a guy and see what kind of person he is, he can end up even with 10. Lots of girls don't want super hot guys but good and smart ones... I meet such girls all the time
Yeah. Thats what they say. I have yet to meet a girl yet though that screamed while underneath me " YEs, yes, O god yes, your diploma feels so good."
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So what number are we giving him...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
THIS... You can also throw in a good physique...sylvester the cat said:
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Its you isn't it?
Depends on initial body language; that would determine his natural confidence levels and need for anything aside from his own approval. And it also depends on how bold you are.
Depends on initial body language; that would determine his natural confidence levels and need for anything aside from his own approval. And it also depends on how bold you are.
PeasantPlayer
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Seen worse get pretty hot girls, so why not? Confidence is key and personality and other factors.....its not just one thing
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This dude...hets hot girls asking me why he hasnt hit on her and saying they wouldnt kick him out ofbed. He. Has issues with his image. Doesnt show off at all. But yet...im hearing girls like his face.
So if here hes a 6 then girls must like his vibe then
So if here hes a 6 then girls must like his vibe then
BrainDamage92
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dude chill theres nothing wrong with your face and stop assesing people on looks and having a HB scale too? This is what is wrong with this community, more average looking women are able to sparkle your mind much better sometimes dont judge on looks and you shall not be judged on looks. How would the pertfect HB1000 feel if she lays on the bed spreads her legs and does nothing hah... There so much more to people...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Its not me dude.
And its like a little social experiment im doing. Rela. Bro. Its that type of thread....u dont have to respond negatively or at all to all the continuous superficial threads.
And its like a little social experiment im doing. Rela. Bro. Its that type of thread....u dont have to respond negatively or at all to all the continuous superficial threads.