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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
would this guy get 8s and 9s...rate
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
salinechow
Senior Don Juan
Yep. So long as he inner frame too.
sylvester the cat
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Depends on his:_sideways_ said:
Level of education
Profession/Earnings
Dress style
Intelligence
Social Status
Level of confidence
Tell your 'buddy' more info is needed than just a mugshot
It depends, if you have to rate just by the picture, then no...But if you get a chance to talk to a guy and see what kind of person he is, he can end up even with 10. Lots of girls don't want super hot guys but good and smart ones... I meet such girls all the time
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
salinechow
Senior Don Juan
miketan70 said:It depends, if you have to rate just by the picture, then no...But if you get a chance to talk to a guy and see what kind of person he is, he can end up even with 10. Lots of girls don't want super hot guys but good and smart ones... I meet such girls all the time
Yeah. Thats what they say. I have yet to meet a girl yet though that screamed while underneath me " YEs, yes, O god yes, your diploma feels so good."
_sideways_
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So what number are we giving him...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
THIS... You can also throw in a good physique...sylvester the cat said:
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Its you isn't it?
Depends on initial body language; that would determine his natural confidence levels and need for anything aside from his own approval. And it also depends on how bold you are.
Depends on initial body language; that would determine his natural confidence levels and need for anything aside from his own approval. And it also depends on how bold you are.
PeasantPlayer
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Seen worse get pretty hot girls, so why not? Confidence is key and personality and other factors.....its not just one thing
_sideways_
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This dude...hets hot girls asking me why he hasnt hit on her and saying they wouldnt kick him out ofbed. He. Has issues with his image. Doesnt show off at all. But yet...im hearing girls like his face.
So if here hes a 6 then girls must like his vibe then
So if here hes a 6 then girls must like his vibe then
BrainDamage92
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dude chill theres nothing wrong with your face and stop assesing people on looks and having a HB scale too? This is what is wrong with this community, more average looking women are able to sparkle your mind much better sometimes dont judge on looks and you shall not be judged on looks. How would the pertfect HB1000 feel if she lays on the bed spreads her legs and does nothing hah... There so much more to people...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Its not me dude.
And its like a little social experiment im doing. Rela. Bro. Its that type of thread....u dont have to respond negatively or at all to all the continuous superficial threads.
And its like a little social experiment im doing. Rela. Bro. Its that type of thread....u dont have to respond negatively or at all to all the continuous superficial threads.