"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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would this creep a girl out?

00Kevin

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I recently met a girl who had almost the samelast name (a one letter difference) as my last girl friend.

I thought about not telling her, but then I just said ah who cares. I'll just say what I feel like. I told her and said it was kind of funny.

Not sure how things will play out now. I guess i'll just have to judge her reaction.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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diablo

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Generally I don't recommend bringing up anything about your last girlfriend... would you care at all if she said "00Kevin, can you believe it? Your last name is almost the same as my last boyfriend!!!" No, I don't think it will creep her out, but I do think you might want to keep little things like that to yourself (or amongst your friends) in the future.
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
She might have thought you were saying that to possibly manipulate her into doing something.
Ermm... how did you come to that conclusion?!?

00Kevin: "Your name is close to that of my last g/f..."
Girl: "Stop trying to make me put out!"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would resist in mentioning that ... how to win friends and influence says ... and I totally agree that ...."Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language. "

If say what your going to say you will indirectly and clumbsly attack her sence of individuality!
 

00Kevin

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yep this seems to have creeped her out. I haven't heard from her for a while now. No big deal though. Just a stupid mistake.

Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
ok I got it.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
yep this seems to have creeped her out. I haven't heard from her for a while now. No big deal though. Just a stupid mistake.

Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
ok I got it.
nope thats not it, the whole point is, do not say weird stuff and most importantly do not say anything that links her to an ex girl freind.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bonhomme

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Loose lips sink ships

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during sex, tell her that her p.ussy tastes just likes your ex's

see what she does.
 
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