"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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would this creep a girl out?

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I recently met a girl who had almost the samelast name (a one letter difference) as my last girl friend.

I thought about not telling her, but then I just said ah who cares. I'll just say what I feel like. I told her and said it was kind of funny.

Not sure how things will play out now. I guess i'll just have to judge her reaction.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Generally I don't recommend bringing up anything about your last girlfriend... would you care at all if she said "00Kevin, can you believe it? Your last name is almost the same as my last boyfriend!!!" No, I don't think it will creep her out, but I do think you might want to keep little things like that to yourself (or amongst your friends) in the future.
 
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Originally posted by rgeere
She might have thought you were saying that to possibly manipulate her into doing something.
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Ermm... how did you come to that conclusion?!?

00Kevin: "Your name is close to that of my last g/f..."
Girl: "Stop trying to make me put out!"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would resist in mentioning that ... how to win friends and influence says ... and I totally agree that ...."Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language. "

If say what your going to say you will indirectly and clumbsly attack her sence of individuality!
 
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yep this seems to have creeped her out. I haven't heard from her for a while now. No big deal though. Just a stupid mistake.

Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
ok I got it.
 
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Originally posted by 00Kevin
yep this seems to have creeped her out. I haven't heard from her for a while now. No big deal though. Just a stupid mistake.

Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
Don't ever talk about other chicks or previous girl friends
ok I got it.
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nope thats not it, the whole point is, do not say weird stuff and most importantly do not say anything that links her to an ex girl freind.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Loose lips sink ships

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during sex, tell her that her p.ussy tastes just likes your ex's

see what she does.
 
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